Tuesday, March 29, 2016

With A Little Help From My Friends


Today’s topic: Friendship

This thought came about on my recent adventure as I had time to drive and think. I am grateful for many things in my life, but I am truly blessed to have so many wonderful friends. I was not always the best at making friends, but I gravitate toward people who share something with me. From kindergarten to middle school to high school, each chapter in my life sees the introduction of more friends. My oldest friend (Corrina Adams) means as much to me as the new group of friends I cultivated at Blue Cross. 

Friends make us laugh, build us up when we are feeling low, hug us when we cry, and believe that we are never limited to what we are today. They give us the strength to dream the big dreams. We might conspire together or commiserate on a bad experience. No matter how lousy a day you have, one of your friends can make everything seem less awful.

A friend can be a family member, a co-worker, a boyfriend/girlfriend, or a casual acquaintance. They can be someone you’ve known all your life or someone you’ve just met. The most important part is that they are your friend. I like to think that every person I consider to be a friend knows exactly how much they mean to me. I hope in return that I mean as much to them.

I think of so many times that I was shy growing up and missed the opportunity to get to know people who may be incredible. I have taken that lesson to heart, and now relish the thought of meeting new people. I have grown into a more social being. No longer am I the woman walking into a room afraid of what other people may think about me. I am now the woman walking into the room knowing that I don’t have to compare myself to anyone else and what matters most is how I see myself.

My future lies before me even if I don’t know what it may bring. What do I know? I know that the incredible group of ladies and gentlemen that I am honored to call my friends will support me every step of that journey. To those new friends – thank you for allowing me the opportunity to get to know you. To my old friends – thank you for still putting up with me after all these years. To my Jess – thank you for being both a terrific daughter and a great friend. To my favorite adventure companion – you make me laugh harder than anyone else ever has, and have the uncanny ability to make me smile even if life is giving me nothing but lemons.  Finally, to my friends that have passed on – you are up in heaven smiling down on me, and I miss you more than I could ever say.


I say to all of you – bring on tomorrow. I know I will be happy to be the cheerleader, the confidant, the love, the supporter and the educator that any of you may need. Thank you for being my friends.

Until we meet again,
Angie

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